TGC Newsletter: The Scary Issue

What I'm Reading

Navigating failure and setbacks is an emotionally challenging experience. When we’re in it, it may feel like we can’t get out. It can feel alarming, heartbreaking, demotivating, and more. But it’s one moment in time.

I recently failed a student of mine. I did a horrible job advising her and subsequently received a terrible review from the experience. First, I took time to vent and grieve from not meeting my expectations or hers. Second, I recognized where the mistakes were and reminded myself of the positive feedback I’ve received. Lastly, I took a big-picture approach to my professional journey of growth and improvement, and I am able to learn from my failures.

This article helped me get there; it’s from ProFellow, a database of fellowships for professionals in all stages of their career.

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What I'm Listening To

In honor of fear and scary stuff, spooky season, and failure, here’s a podcast about the Human Scream, by Stuff You Should Know.

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What I'm Doing

F*ckup Nights Boston VOL 1 is here! I couldn’t be more excited to share this event with you all. My co-lead, Sam Feldman of Impact Hub, and I are working to bring you an evening of laughter, libations, and lessons learned. Come, bring friends, and enjoy the evening!

Here’s what to expect: 3 fearless speakers sharing their biggest professional disasters. 10 slides. 7 minutes each. Zero sugarcoating. A room packed with brilliant, curious humans who know success is never a straight line. Drinks, community, and vibes that hit harder than your worst pitch meeting.

Details:

• Thursday, November 13, 2025

• Doors open at 6:30, speakers start at 7 pm

• Located at Aeronaut Brewing Company, 14 Tyler St, Somerville

• Link to RSVP: https://bit.ly/BostonFuN

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What's Moved Me

"The only way to develop true confidence is to earn it.

• The confidence that you can bounce back from failure is earned by working through previous failures.

• The confidence that you can deliver the speech is earned by the previous speeches you have given.

• The confidence that you can perform on game day is earned by the previous performances in practice.

In the beginning, you need enough courage to practice even though it may not go very well. And over time, as your skills improve, courage transforms into confidence. Courage first, confidence later."

-James Clear

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What I'm Wiggling To

Olivia Dean’s new album, The Art of Loving!! Olivia Dean has exploded around the world on the Billboard charts for two songs (Man I Need and Lady Lady) on this album, but I have to admit, my favorite is Something Inbetween. Check it out.

Stay Playful,

Tamar